Is The Bow Too Big?

My Aunt Ida gave me these shoes for my birthday. I'm not used to wearing a big bow on a shoe. I'm not into flashy, so how can I wear this shoe without bringing too much attention to myself?

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Hi Niece of Ida,

I hate to break it to you, but if you're going to wear those shoes, unless you wear a burlap bag over your head, everyone will notice you. I'm not much help.

Good luck,
BFF Betty